Anyway, once we had raw wood on the ceiling we had to make a decision. I finally decided to use a light gray stain. There will be gray curtains and pillows in the room and I thought that would go well. After shopping around and trying a few different options I ended up using Rustoleum in two colors: Driftwood (light) and Weathered Gray (medium dark). I didn't like either alone and wanted something in between so I just blended them in even amounts.My friend Sonia, a glutton for punishment, agreed to help me on this project. I wasn't sure how much time would be needed between application of the stain and wiping of the stain so it really was a job for two people. The first thing we did was to staple and tape up plastic sheets to cover the painted walls. Given the amount of stain that ended up on them, this was definitely worth the 20 minutes it took.
We shopped around for many tools, not sure which would work. I had no intention of staining and wiping by hand up on a ladder so everything needed to be on a pole. I wasn't sure the best way to get the stain applied into the crevices of the tongue and groove planks. We went through several options and we ended up using a lambswool pad that had a pole attachment. Other than the first couple of swipes where I loaded too much stain, causing a waterfall from above, this tool worked very well. Make sure you wear gloves and a hair covering because there will be drips. Generally I would dip the pad into the stain, lightly, and make a first pass along the length of the pieces. Then I would rub back and forth using some pressure and that was what got the stain into the grooves.

Now for the wiping. Our concern was finding a tool on a pole that would allow for a long continuous smooth wipe from wall to wall. Some of the options were too rigid and did not allow for different angles. We also weren't sure how often we would need a new wiping pad so we wanted something that could be changed out. We ended up using an old Swiffer I found at the house. It had lost it's pad so we duct taped a folded kitchen towel to the flat part. Then we used rags made from t-shirts over the homemade pad. This "tool" had everything we were looking for. You can see it in this picture. Our only problem with it was that the head was a little too flexible and would flip up pretty regularly. Luckily the stain was very forgiving and allowed for multiple passes to get it consistent. Fortunately for me, I was not working the wiping tool so Sonia was able to get everything perfect. I would recommend finding someone with a little perfectionism for this job, but not too much because you can drive yourself crazy!

All in all I would say this project turned out just the way I wanted it. The stain goes on fairly dark but lightens as you wipe it. Then once it dries it has a little of a paint quality that gives it a lightness like a pickling stain. I think Driftwood would be a good way to describe the color. I will stain some trim pieces the same color and tack it around the room like crown molding to hide the ugly edges.
After this, I have a few electrical things to do in the room, including installing a ceiling fan/light. Then I can install the wood floor and baseboards and the master bedroom will be ready for decorating. Hooray!

